Early in my career as an art director at a national printing company, I learned one of the most valuable lessons of my life—not from a mentor or executive, but from a bold and insightful member of my team. At just 21, I was still finding my footing, juggling multiple responsibilities, and absorbing everything I could. But this particular team member taught me something that no amount of experience could replace: the true meaning of respect.
Respect Isn’t Demanded—It’s Earned
No matter your position, authority, or expertise, respect doesn’t come from titles or commands. It’s something you cultivate through your actions. As the saying goes, “You earn respect.” It’s simple, yet incredibly powerful.
Unfortunately, in recent years, we’ve seen a global shift where some leaders mistake fear and control for respect. They believe that aggressive tactics and dominance will earn admiration. But respect and contempt are not the same thing. True respect is rooted in understanding, integrity, and the way we treat others—not in how loudly we assert power.
So, What Can You Do?
The good news? Change starts with us. Respect is contagious, and small actions can create a ripple effect.
✅ Be Kind – A simple smile can break barriers and make someone’s day. You’d be surprised how often people mirror kindness when they receive it.
✅ Listen (Really Listen!) – We live in a world where everyone wants to be heard, but few truly listen. Give people your full attention, and don’t rush to offer solutions unless they ask. Sometimes, people just need to be understood.
✅ Hold Leaders Accountable – Our representatives (they’re not rulers) should embody respect in their actions and decisions. If they don’t, speak up—but do it respectfully.
✅ Lead by Example – Whether at work, in your community, or within your own family, be the person who practices what they preach.
At the end of the day, respect isn’t just about social niceties—it’s about building a world where people feel valued and heard. So, go out there and be the reason someone believes in kindness today.
